I recently became aware I was negligent in spending time with myself…I personally don’t like the idea of having to “schedule” time for pleasure and passion, that takes the fun out of it. I had become disconnected from my body and its desire to receive joy. If you have to schedule time for sex, passion, fun, or making love with yourself or your partner, it might be time to start living a more turned-on life! My natural tendency is to push myself hard and fast until I can’t go

“Rub it like this.” “You need to stretch first.” “It’s because you don’t drink enough orange juice!” You can find a lot of weird, funky advice on the internet when searching for ways to have stronger, more powerful orgasms. Some is good, some not so much. I don’t write about old wives tales here at Zensual Gal, just simple and powerful sex tips. Below are my recommendations for you to have more powerful orgasms, more often: Learn To Relax Learning to relax is by far the most

“Turn around.” He said in a deep voice. I was sitting on his bed, and stared quietly in to his eyes. His eyes were dark and demanding. Waves of heat filled my body when he said it once more. I nodded, I knew what he wanted and he knew I would give it to him. Without speaking, I turned around. He laid his hand on my back and ordered me to lie on my stomach. With his lips, he placed soft kisses on my back from the bottom all the way to the top. My body curled with every touch.

“Light as a feather, stiff as a board, light as a feather, stiff as a board …” [Chanting.] Sonya opened one eye in protest, “Do we really have to do this?” “Oh come on, it’s game night!” begged Aimee. “The guys don’t seem to mind.” “Stiff as a board?” Damon smirked. “Stiff as a board.” Sean laughed. Sonya reached one hand over to Damon’s crotch while simultaneously reaching the other to Sean’s. “Stiff as a… a…” Her voice trailed off as she sighed and smiled sweetly at Aimee.

There’s something about reading other people’s stories, I keep thinking is that real, did they really do that? It’s so much hotter to read something that really happened. So I thought why not tell one of my own true stories. It happened last Christmas, after a friend’s wedding. It was late and the other guests were mostly gone. We’d stayed up drinking with some Army officers, in no hurry to get back to our room in the hotel. They were going to catch a cab to another hotel, bu

A lack of sexual desire–the thoughts you have around sex–is the number one reason couples in North America stop having sex. What that means for you is: if you have negative thoughts towards sex before, during and after the sexual encounter, it will profoundly dampen your desire to have sex. I call it the ‘oh crap phenomenon’: “Oh crap, do I have to have sex tonight”, or “Oh crap, you want sex now! Can’t you see I’m exhausted?” To get back your sexual desire, you need to start

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“Touch me, slut.” He stares hard into my eyes as he commands of me his pleasure. I hurry to oblige him. “Yes,” I moan, as I take his hard dick into my hand. In a flash, he has my throat. “Yes, what?” he demands. “Yes, Master,” I whisper, “I’m sorry master.” After a brief hesitation, his nod signals that he accepts my apology. At least for now. Laying nude next to him, I start licking his beautiful cock and my nipples begin to pucker in excitement and my pussy starts aching fo

Loyalty and faithfulness may sound like mundane, old-fashioned concepts, but research shows they are vital to emotional and physical health. Committed partners live longer, healthier, and more productive lives, especially if their relationships are happy and monogamous. People who powerfully choose to be in a committed and faithful relationship, and honor the agreement, have an advantage over couples who verbally make the commitment but choose to experiment outside their rela

Recently, I found myself single at the end of a five year marriage. As I started researching online dating websites with a few girlfriends, we discovered the top hot hookup sites. Whether you’re just dipping your toes back into the singles pool, freshly divorced, or you’re someone who has been wading in the singles deep end for years, you’ll likely be intrigued by this list. After a fair share of due diligence, and a rather large leap of faith, I threw caution to the wind and

My intention wasn’t to have sex in the club this time. I’ve been there many times before and even though I knew a few good spots to take carnal pleasure from a lustful lover, I wanted something more tonight. I wanted someone to take me home and fuck me for hours. Maybe I was a bit scorned after my last relationship ended, but that is the last rational thought I have. My mind was stuck on the sexual glare I was getting from a stranger as I got out of the cab. His eyes glued to