SEXUAL TENSION: THE SINGLE, MOST POWERFUL SEX MOVE
If you watch MTV, read any gossip magazine or hit any hot club on the weekend, you are going to notice one thing they all share in common:
Practically every other woman you see is dressed in something skimpy, sexy or revealing. And almost all of them are being overtly sexual to some degree.
Ask any honest guy what their gut reaction is to these girls and they will all tell you the same thing…
It’s hot! It’s sexy!
Majority, of men have another measuring stick they shared with me when they meet a new woman….Is she “doable” or not “doable”?
As a result, most women think that the best way to be sexy and keep their man attracted too them is to dress hot and be overtly sexual.
Let me tell first hand that this is hot, but….it’s not a good way to keep your partner attracted.
Read that again.
It’s hot & sexy in the moment, but it’s not a good way to keep your partner (male or female) attracted in the long term. And Zee Gal is all about keeping her partner attracted for the long term.
While dressing sexy is certainly a great way for keeping your partner turned on, it’s not so effective at keeping them thinking about you.
A better way at keeping your partner attracted and hot for you as well as keeping them thinking of you is by:
Building Sexual Tension
Building sexual tension is literally 100x more effective than just ‘acting sexy’.
Now before giving you some tips on building sexual tension, keep in mind that dressing/acting sexy and building sexual tension aren’t mutually exclusive.
You just need to be able to differentiate between them.
Okay, so now you know that dressing sexy and building sexual tension are two different things.
What can I do to build sexual tension with my partner?
I thought you’d never ask!
Before I give you some examples, here is a short warning that you must always heed:
Using sexual tension with your man is like using a strong spice when cooking. Only use it just a little bit to keep things interesting. Use it too much and it gets annoying. Fast.
Here are proven ways you can build sexual tension with your partner:
Teasing
When you tease your lover, you’re saying something slightly mean with a slight smile on your face. Your lover should know that you are not entirely serious and that really you are just playing:
Try saying something like:
I obviously don’t spank you enough. Try it the next time she/he says something stupid.
Your mom would be proud of what she raised (then jokingly roll your eyes). Try it the next time she/he spills their drink/make a small faux-pas.
You need to stop shopping with your mom. Try it when you see she/he wearing a new shirt/shoes/clothes (don’t forget to slyly smile after saying this).
You’re going to have to do a lot more than that to impress me, try it when she/he tries to do something to impress you.
2 Steps Forward, 1 Step Back
You probably already know this one. A great way to build sexual tension is to take 2 steps forward with your lover, then quickly take one step backwards.
Here are some examples:
a) The next time you meet your lover in a public place, get up really close to him and whisper in their ear that you’d love to have him inside you right then & there.
Then maybe give him a quick kiss and quickly change the subject.
Anytime she/he tries to steer the conversation back to what you just said, change the subject again.
I can guarantee that for the whole conversation, your lover will only be able to think about one thing! It will turn them on and infuriate them at the same time. Perfect for building sexual tension
b) When you are in a rush to go somewhere, start getting down & dirty with your man. Start by giving her/him a hand/blowjob/sex/foreplay. Then stop halfway and rush out the door.
Text he or she to apologize and tell them that you didn’t mean to. Let them know throughout the day that you plan to finish things off later…
Physically Teasing
Physically teasing your lover is probably the easiest way to build sexual tension. But again, you must remember to use physical teasing sparingly to build sexual tension.
The whole idea of physically teasing your lover is to make things fun and playful. Sort of like you are back in the schoolyard. It’s easy.
Enjoy and be playful, Zee Gal