"We cannot talk about sexual power without talking about sexual energy. I believe our zensuality is, at its root, an energy. This energy is our own powerful core, the fire we use to flirt, connect, explore, fantasize, and express our power in a multitude of ways.
When your energy is strong and you are in alignment, you have a powerful way of attracting to you what you desire. This is an ideal state. Your core sexual energy is essential to your personal gas tank; it keeps you going, but it's not mere fuel. There is a quality to it that is fundamental to you living an orgasmic life."
The highly anticipated book, "69 of My Dirtiest Secrets" is coming soon in fall 2023!
I reached out to Sher because I was re-entering the dating world in my mid-forties and completely terrified. Not only did she help me overcome my fears and insecurities with dating, I embraced my body in a whole new way, created a dating profile that I loved and felt was authentic, and now I'm in a long-term committed relationship.
~ Sue, age 43
I was newly engaged and kept having triggers tied to my past trauma, but I really wanted to save my marriage. Sher helped me identify my past attachment wounds, understand how my partner was violating them, and create boundaries to move forward so I could feel safe again. Now our marriage is stronger than ever.
~ Taylor, age 35
"Our basic need as humans is connection and bonding...
sometimes we just need the right support at the right time to discover the path back home."